My dh and i have been seperated for over a month (our third time), we have two young children.
My experience is that he is just like a teenager; and just like a teenager you can't ask him to plan for the future, he can't forsee the consequences of hisr actions, he is impulsive undisciplined and selfish, he is unpredictble and at times untrustworthy and unreliable, he wants to spend all his time with friends yet have the safety of his family to come home too. And he just does not do well with responsibility at all. He just doesn't get my above concerns
Now given all that i know i have made the right desicion to seperate, but has anyone else had to make a desicion like this even though they still loved the person. Like you knew that if you where to be truly honest with your self you accepted that your husband was not marriage material and could never provide emotionaly, physically or spiritualy for his family yet it hurt because it was like loosing a best friend?
Make sence?
2006-11-13
21:30:52
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