My bf and I typically get along great. However, there are some aspects of his personality that make it difficult to be with him. At the same time, there are some aspects of my personality that don't always make it any better. 90% of the time, we're great. We love each other deeply, and it's painful to consider that we won't be together, and we can't figure things out as to why some things reoccur. We really want to work things out, but we're afraid of causing each other pain (mostly he's afraid of causing me pain, but I think about this also). Part of me wants to give up, but another part of me doesn't - I feel like I'd be letting the love of my life slip through my fingers. We tend to communicate well, but it's mostly after the fact...we need to learn how to better communicate in the midst of a disagreement. Is my best option to just leave him alone during disagreements and wait for things to subside? I want us to start fresh - should we spend some time apart or would that be worse?
2006-11-11
23:11:40
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