We have been together for one year, he says he loves me and wants to marry me one day. However, last night we got into an argument about our pasts. I did some things I am not proud of before we started going out and he knows about them. Even though, he did much much worse. His past doesn't bother me, I let it all go, but last night he brought everything up and said he has doubts about our future. I tried to tell him he needs to let things go and that it's not fair to say these things when he has done much worse in his past, including being a male stripper & sleeping with over 100 women, when I can still count the men I have slept with on my fingers and didn't lose my virginity til I was 19 (now 21). He said he was just venting and that he loves me. But why would he bring it up and hurt me then? I love him very much and want to spend my life with him. So my question is, HOW CAN I MAKE HIM FORGET ABOUT THE STUPID PAST, AND FOCUS ON THE PRESENT AND FUTURE?? ...10 pionts to best advice!!
2006-11-09
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