I've been married 11 years.I have always had doubts about my marriage My mom pushed me on him. We married when I got pregnant. I didn't love him. I told myself I would make the best of it. I have developed feelings for him,but we've never had things in common or a connection. He has been distant, cold, selfish, and occasionally abusive, both physically and verbally.I told myself that this was a normal. Everyone has problems but last year when he shoved me and I got a concussion a light went off and I knew this was wrong. the abuse hasn't been constant, but about once a year it does get violent, he snaps quickly and breaks things alot I've begged him for 3 years to work on our marriage but he just ignored me. I was not a priority for him. 6 mths ago I met a guy from my past. I love him. Hubby found out and now decides he wants to treat me right and work on us. I say too late. he's had many chances. but he won't let go. he wants a chance to redeem himself.We have 2 kids,4 and 11.help!
2006-11-09
04:44:00
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Marriage & Divorce