i've been married for 8 months, and i am VERY unhappy. i have somehow managed to fall in love with my best friend of nearly a decade, and i'm in a terrible mess. my best friend and i have a history (that we put to rest more than 5 years ago) and now all the sudden, my world flipped upside down and i'm back, deeper than i used to be with him, but i haven't cheated, nor will i ever. he is a HUGE part of my life, and has been MUCH longer than my husband, and will never not be in my life; plus, things were bad before i felt this way. hubby doesn't talk to me, we don't laugh, we fight constantly..i'm so lonely. i do love him, but i question if i'm IN love,or if i ever was? i also have a 3 year old who my husband has raised with me since she was 4 mo old, and she loves him SO much. how do i take a father figure away from her? (her bio father is VERY active with 50% custody) i want to leave (not for my best friend) but am afraid to make the wrong decision. HELP..advise please!
2006-11-04
18:03:59
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macnchz22
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Marriage & Divorce