I was hurt very badly in the past...and I guess I still hold a grudge for it too, because it won't leave my mind. Last night, my boyfriend and I got into it, because he told me he had a dream about another girl-nothing sexual, but another girl. It made me feel bad, and it reminded me of the time when my ex did the same thing-except it WAS something sexual. So we got into it, I ended up crying, and he told me that apparently I don't trust him, and that I was always treating him like he did something wrong, when he didn't. He also said I always bring my ex's up, and it makes him feel like he's being a bad boyfriend, when he isn't.
I'm just so insecure about him leaving me, because he means the world to me. He's my soulmate. So any suggestions on how I can stop worrying about what happened in the past, and letting it affect my future? I feel horrible for making him feel like that...he's such a wonderful person. Any advice?
2006-11-01
03:48:12
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Maico
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