2006-11-01 03:47:21 · 32 answers · asked by alex 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course it can work out. i had a chick that we got it on on the first night we met, and it turned into a serious relationship. it depends on how mature the guy is, and how you react now that its been on
your job is to not push him away by being too demanding, desperate or bitchy about it. you both consented, but it doesnt make you a ho. some guys just know how to push the right buttons, so dont feel bad. i think you found yourself a good catch, but the task is to keep him. and i dont mean keep giving it up and being his booty call, thats a sure way to lose his respect for you. maintain that you are equal status to him in the relationship. show him what you bring to the table besides sex, and make sure he sees you as a valueable asset to his life. in the same way, make sure that he's stable and sure about himself that he can be a good leader in the relationship. give him the love he deserves, but make sure that you get the respect you deserve as well
its a point where the relationship can go any way, and theres a lot of factors, not just sex, that determines if the relationship will last or not. with that said, once you display your value, and you see that he's the kind of man you want to keep, dont be stingy with the sex. you'll enjoy it a lot more if theres mutual love and respect between the both of you
good luck kiddo
2006-11-01 04:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by unkerpaulie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say... do you have conversations? Does he tell you things about his family and his life? The reason I ask is because I've read and heard from doctors that in studies of couples people who have sex before they have truly gotten to know one and other tend to get stuck and not able to move past your basic conversation. Which leads to you not knowing anything about the person you are with. But i would say as long as you communicate about things other then the weather and how was your day you have just as good a chance as anyone else at making your relationship work.... Just keep talking and you'll do fine!
2006-11-01 04:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by :)*taurus tease*(: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes more sense to be with a person and see how they are before desciding if you can be with them for life. Put everything you have into this relationship if it's what you want and if it doesn't work out then don't try to find blame or feel like you've lost anything just try to figure out a better way to go about it next time.
2006-11-01 04:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by grubblettelphinloch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship where sex was or is the foundation is like grass in the wind. But relationship built on love will stand through. If you want to see what he's really like deny him the very thing he's probably with you for anyway, then you'll see if there's any love.
2006-11-01 04:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by focused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex with my guy for 2 months before he asked me out. It has been almost 5 years and getting married next may!
2006-11-01 03:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by jessigirl00781 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have to ask that question, there's a strong possiblity that it may not. Usually a relationship that is or was based on a physical bond rather than an emotional, spiritual, or mental one has the tendencies to fail. I'm sorry.
2006-11-01 03:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so, I had sex with my boyfriend before he became my boyfriend and we are still together going strong 6 months later
2006-11-01 03:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!!! I had sex with my girlfriend before I asked her out. We've been going out over 2 years now, and going strong.
2006-11-01 03:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by BigJCliff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stay focus what works for you may not work for someone else just continue to be a couple at least you are a couple now
2006-11-01 03:50:09 · answer #9 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.there's no respect when sex comes before a long relationship. you must get to know each other first.take one step at a time.friendship is so important,more important than sex.if it's meant to be the sex part is worth waiting for.
2006-11-01 03:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋