2006-11-01 03:47:04 · 11 answers · asked by dreamy 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they are abusive and manipulative. A deadly combination.
2006-11-01 03:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Caper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got a real jerk on your hands. Some guys think they're manly if they make their girl cry and then they try to turn the blame around on her. I've seen this before where they say I didn't make you cry ...you made yourself cry.....WRONG. Don't accept that. Tell him it's time for him to take responsibility for his actions and grow up. If you are in a relationship with this person you may want to rethink that. I think you can do much better than this jerk.
2006-11-01 11:58:03 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One of the reasons this happens is that someone wants to demonstrate authority or power (over somebody else). It happens to men, too. A boss or a superior in rank will treat a subordinate just as unfairly as he can, and when the subordinate complains about it... to anyone! ... he gets slammed for insubordination or disloyalty. And the System usually lets petty bosses play these nasty games to their heart's content. So smash the System; it's dirty, and it does not deserve to exist.
2006-11-01 11:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone who likes control. If someone really loves you, the last thing they want to do is make you sad enough to cry.
2006-11-01 11:50:58 · answer #4 · answered by c_my_blueeyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about power and control hun ... I used to be in a marriage like that. He wouldn't stop with his emotional abuse, until I started crying. He then felt as if he had accomplished his "mission".
If this is the kind relationship you're in Mookie, PLEASE .... get out now ... before he causes irreversible damage to your self-esteem. Fortunately, I got out of it in time ... my self-esteem is back to what it should be. Don't let him do that to you ... leave.
2006-11-01 12:02:16 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Carol♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I FEEL FOR YOU OR THAT PERSON BUT WHEN PEOPLE HAVE ISSUES THEY WILL DO THEM THINGS, BEST BET IS TO JUST IGNORE THEM PEOPLE PLEASE BE STRONG AND PRAY FOR THEM , PEOPLE WHO MAKE OTHERS CRY HAVE SOME BIG TIME ISSUES!!
2006-11-01 11:54:24 · answer #6 · answered by SWM 38 _4_ YOUNG GF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, mental illness
2006-11-01 11:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you cry too easily.
2006-11-01 11:56:26 · answer #8 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They have emotional issues. Run like hell. . . .
2006-11-01 11:52:16 · answer #9 · answered by CryBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have problems NOT you.
2006-11-01 11:52:24 · answer #10 · answered by texirocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋