In anger and when my husband gets upset he has acted out throwing things, hitting things across the room, yells, when i want to talk about something he has said I don't ******* care, when he gets frustrated in any disagreement we are having he has told me to shut up. Because of this i always ask him if he loves and tell him he hsould find someone else, but he tells me he loves me. He thinks I am insecure and hates this about me, and he says this is my biggest problem. Before i met him i was not insecure, is my husband creating what he hates? It feels like a cycle of some kind, he wants me to beleive his love and trust him, but he behaves in disrespeftful ways when upset or angry to me. I think my insecurties are pushing him away, what can I do? Please help us.
2006-10-23
14:44:57
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Marriage & Divorce