I know that feeling you have, that missing piece in your life. I had a father that was an abusive drunk beyond belief. If that is you I'd like to share with you what I've learned. First, it's not your fault and there is nothing wrong with you. I know the fear of having children and the fear you will be become what you hate and become abusive, that's a lie. I have rasied 3 beautiful children that walked in love and peace everyday they lived at home. The key is to give them what we didn't get..LOVE, love them like crazy, love them lavishly..love them without hesitation and I promise you it will be returned..FEAR NOT! Give them exactly what you craved, not money, they want your time...no kid ever grows up talking about Dad & Mom's money...they will remember your kindness, your time and your overflowing love for them...make them feel how special they are..GIVE out of the pain we all knew so well!
Don't live in FEAR...you can break this cycle!
You know what they need...what we needed!
2006-10-12
13:58:49
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