Well I confronted her this Monday but everytime we cross paths in the hall she turns away from me =(
When I confronted her Monday she was totally awsome she smiled the whole time we talked and even blushed. I totally felt the conversation. She also spoke very softly.
But now I'm having trouble yet again I ended that conversation early on Monday because we had ran into her friend and she began to get in a hurry so I told her my name and asked hers.
Now the only problem is I'm having trouble grabbing her alone in a place. How can I get her to say Hi to me? Whenever she is about to run into her friend. I already know I need to strike up a conversation when she's alone and I have subjects in mind so that's no problem but I need to be able to communicate with her when she is around her friend. All I want to hear her say is Hi. Should I tap her shoulder and say Hi Crystal or how should I do this so she doesn't feel uneasy?
2006-10-12 13:58:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everytime I go a day without getting a word out of her I try to break something impossible. I can't stand it.
2006-10-12 13:58:50 · update #1
Just be totally casual, and talk to her regularly. I'm extremely shy and I tend to run away if I'm alone with a guy I'm not comfortable with. Just give her some more time to open up, and open up to her slowly, so she doesn't get overwhelmed. Just calling her name wouldn't make her feel uneasy, but you can be spontaneous once in a while and tap her shoulder or something. I dunno if she would, but it might also help if you say her name in a special way. She might like it, but that's just me. Hope this helps, and good luck!
2006-10-12 14:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when u first seee her in the morning say good morning crystal.
try an bring up gradual stuff like how r u today or anything interesting going on with u.
when she is with her friends....walk up an say hey guys or whats up girls that type of stuff an then indivadualy greet your girl--say hi crystal or hey crystal
do this everyday when u see her
u may want to share the fact that u like crystal to 1 of her friends this way when they see u comin they might leave u 2 alone an she will have 2 talk or say something
anyways good luck
2006-10-12 21:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Always Jolly AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try so hard to get her alone to talk. Take your time one night and write her a letter telling her how you feel about her. Keep it simple and too the point. Tell her you cannot get her alone to talk privately and just say you want to be friends. That's harmless enough to get to know her. And then when you get to know her better, you can ask her out. Letters always work.
2006-10-12 21:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well mabey you should just start saying Hi for a few days (like 3) thne see if she says Hi back. Then say something like "Hows it going?" Then if she has to leave just say Bye or something. Just keeping working your way up and one day she'll crack and just start talking with you whenever she can...mabey.
Keep at it!!! :)
2006-10-12 21:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan R. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT YOU SHOULD DO IS JUST GO UP TO HER ONE DAY AND ASK HER IF IT WOULD BE OK FOR BOTH OF YOU TO HAVE THE DAY TO YOURSELVES MAYBE ON A WEEKEND WITH NO DISTRACTIONS TAKE HER TO A PARK SO IT CAN BE PEACEFULL THERE YOU CAN HAVE ALL THE TIME YOU WANT WITH HER AND THEN SHE WONT BE THAT SHY AROUND YOU ANYMORE
2006-10-12 21:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Deadman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should tap her on the back or talk to her when her friends are around it doesnt matter if her friends are there .she will talk to you more if you spend time with her at lunch.and when you really get to know her you can ask her out
2006-10-12 21:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by ♥kristin♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk up to her even if she is with her friends and ask to talk to her alone and then ask her if she would have lunch with you
2006-10-12 21:01:30 · answer #7 · answered by 30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all need to love and to be loved.
Most of our issues could be solved fairly easily, if we have our loved one supporting us.
If you are hurt by a former ex, well you just need to get yourself up and start searching for someone who deserves your love.
Don't ever be shy .. that won't ever help you .. and you'll have lots to lose. Do what your heart tells you it's right.
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2006-10-12 20:59:21 · answer #8 · answered by c g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you should just say hi when you see her. I mean at my school whenever i walk by someone i know i say hey, or i say their name. It doesn't matter who it is, boy or girl, I say hey to everyone i know. Just say hi when you see her.
2006-10-12 21:03:12 · answer #9 · answered by leon27607 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write her a little note or draw her a picture or something.
2006-10-12 20:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋