My wife left me for a few reasons, mostly because I wouldn't show my affection/love for her enough and my priorities were wrong. Long story short, I had been trying to change the last few months of our relationship into someone more caring and loving and am still changing and have made a lot of progress. However, it was a case of "too little, too late" so she left me anyway.
I've spoken to her and have told her that I've changed in leaps and bounds and am ready to be the man she wants me to be. However, she's pessimistic and believes I am incapable of change and that if I do so, it will only be temporary so she is unwilling to give me another chance. I'm quite confident that this new identity I've discovered is the "real" me and I'm happier this way. How many of you are pessimistic about your spouses ability to change and why? How many of you have changed and are glad you did?
As a side note, I want to share that people ARE capable of change, but they have to WANT to change.
2006-09-27
03:44:21
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Rivrav
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Marriage & Divorce