One of my best friends has told me that she has been swapping texts and picture/video messages with her one of her b/f's best friends (which is not unusual), but then she told me that the pictures and videos were quite intimate. I know the guy as well but does what she is doing constitute cheating and what should I say to her?
2006-09-27 03:43:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
honestly i dont think it is but she needs to get a clue because that can make thing a lot of things to lead to cheating and if she wants her boyfriend to trust her or if she want to stay with her then she needs to stop!!!!
2006-09-27 03:54:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not cheating, but it will lead to cheating. You could say something to her about that, but more than likely, she will not listen to you. She should know better than that and what goes around, comes around. Let her learn her lesson the hard way and do whatever you can to try and stay out of it.
2006-09-27 10:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are probably doing some stuff on the side that you don't know. Tell her its wrong and tell the "real" girlfriend of his. She should know. Wouldn't you like to know if your guy was "cheating." If the guy really isn't cheating then he is definately having some thoughts about doing so.
2006-09-27 10:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by missyloowho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abslutley. You doing something you promised to only do with the other person of the monogomous relationship. Sure it's cheating.
2006-09-27 10:58:49 · answer #4 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be pissed to find my boyfriend doing that with one of my friends. I would tell the boyfriend he has a right to know that she's messing with one of his friends.....would you like it if your boyfriend was doing that with her or another one of your good friends.....I consider it cheating because most of her time is spent on the phone with the friend....
2006-09-27 10:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Amber R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cheating but it is inappropriate enough behavior for a break up. What would her man say if he knew she was doing that. Tell her to stop. She's nasty.
2006-09-27 10:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its cheating.
2006-09-27 10:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by wHaT eVeR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing with fire.. something will happen. There is definately the intent to cheat.
2006-09-27 10:48:15 · answer #8 · answered by Joe S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really cheating but it sure sounds like their contemplating.
2006-09-27 10:45:29 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's cheating. I don't think you should say anything to your friend. Your loyalty should be to her and not her boyfriend.
2006-09-27 10:50:41 · answer #10 · answered by CrazyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋