I just wanted to see if there are people out there who are in the same boat. I am a nigerian now living in the states. My father was abusive to my mom and just recently found out how i was given birth to. My father almost beat my mom to death before she gave birth to me. She had to literally break away from him and run away to the hospital driving herself to give birth to me. Then even after she gave birth to me, the abuse continued and I was told thatt she had to abandon me when i was a few weeks old, left me with him (my uncle and aunt had to stay with my dad to take care of me). Now, one would think my mom and I would be the best of friends, but growing up, she took out alot of bitterness on me. She always cursed me and even told me that I bring back ugly memories whenever she looks at me bcos I look like my dad the most out of all us. I wonder if this is common bcos I've dated single mothers here in the states who have dead beat baby dads and they would NEVER despise their kids.
2006-09-20
03:40:31
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