20+years ago, when I was just 14, I accidently impregnated a girl while losing my virginity to her. Being from a Dysfunctional family, with the capitol "D" I was forced by my parents to part ways, and I have never seen the child I helped bring in to this messed up world. I have since been diagnosed with a brain tumor that I inherited geneticly, which I am told my present children, and their children(if they have any in the future) must be tested for, and treated to prevent the horrible problems I have been living with for the last decade of my life. My thoughts have been on the child I have never seen. Though I know how to reach her mother, and want to tell her to test the child I have never known, I fear telling my wife of 17 years about this child that I have never mentioned to her, and what repercussions it would have. I know my son, and daughter would love the thought of having an older sister, but I worry about what message it would send my not quite adolecent son. Help?
2006-09-07
04:53:08
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Robster01
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Other - Family & Relationships