We split up 2 weeks ago. We had a long distance relationsip for 3 & half years, I thought he was the one. We moved in together at the beginning of this year with 3 friends, out of town. He became distant & moody & I did everything I could to make it work but couldn't seem to make him happy. We didn't see our friends that much & it was hard. I found out he told my best friend that he was thinking of breaking up with me & as it had crossed my mind anyway I decided to end it & told him he couldn't give me the committment I needed - after 4 years we had never discussed the future! He didn't know I knew he wanted to end it too, but he did get upset. He moved out & I started to move on.
Last night he said he couldn't cope without me, he lost his job & everything was falling apart around him. He is seeing me independent & he said it reminds him if the girl he first fell in love with. I told him I wasn't sure he could give me what I want. He said once he'd sorted himself out he wants to try.
2006-08-29
22:58:24
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Sarah C
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