He is 31 and has really done nothing with his life. I am 29 and have a nursing degree. My question is; when should I realize he will never b sxxt and dumo him, and how do i dump him?
2006-08-29 22:56:55 · 20 answers · asked by lazy_n_spoiled 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get a grip lady.
2006-08-30 00:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have asked yourself this question years ago before you had two children.
You have been with him since you were 14 years old?
If he hasn't changed in 15 years do you really think he is going to be different over the next 15?
You need to consider your children then make your choice.
My thinking is you should have dumped him 14 years ago.
2006-08-30 07:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? What hospital do you work in? You can't even spell. The only thing I got out of your message is that you want to dump him. You have the kids; you have the degree; I assume you have a job. If so, take the kids and move out. The hospital you work in will provide daycare. Get out and get on with your life.
2006-08-30 06:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Gina N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 years seems like plenty of time. Tell him you have had enough of the s**t and you want him to move out. Tell him that you will take him back if he gets his s**t together but if he hasn't in 15 years he probably won't anytime soon. I don't know how this guy will react so before you make that move set up a secondary plan, so if he goes nuts you have somewhere you can go, so you and your kids are safe.
2006-08-30 06:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to throw away 15 years with the father of your children? If you do, then just throw him out and don't let him come back. Be fair and tell him that you are tired of pulling all the weight around the house and him not contributing in any way. You might want to seek some legal cousel.
2006-08-30 10:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have thought it wouldn't have taken 15 years and 2 kids to realize it.
2006-08-30 07:33:27 · answer #6 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the need to ask that question, that means you are no longer interested in the fate of this relationship. Grow a set and just tell him.
2006-08-30 06:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry another men who have done somthing in his life. The basic thing is have you not studied his carrier, why have you given two children to such a man.
2006-08-30 05:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by eitemad_eitemad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL MA BEY YOU SHOULD OF THOUGHT ABOUT THAT BEFORE THE KIDS WERE BORN, YOU DON'T NO HOW HARD IT IS ON CHILDREN TO GO TH RU DIVORCE AND THERE IS THIS THING CALLED COMMON LAW AFTER 6 MONTHS OF LIVING TOGETHER YOU WOULD ALSO NEED TO DEAL WITH CHILD SUPPORT AND CUSTODY BATTLES YOU NEED TO ASK A PROFESSIONAL.
2006-08-30 06:04:20 · answer #9 · answered by La Guera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you arent married get a life and find someone who loves you
This person is getting the milk but wont buy a cow
you deserve someone to raise a family with you who gives you love and devotion that you can return
He is using you for his wants and not returning to you
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-08-30 07:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you've been with him for 15 years and have two kids... you really want to dump him?
2006-08-30 05:58:45 · answer #11 · answered by space 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋