chicgirl639
Level 2
Is this relationship worth pursuing?
I have known this guy for about a year and a half, and I really like him a lot. The thing is I don't know if he likes me, though I strongly suspect he does. I don't want to lose the friendship so I don't want to ask him out and get a no (I'm chicken, I know)
Any thoughts, or spiritual/psychic readings, I'd like to hear it all!
2006-08-29 22:56:44 · 5 answers · asked by chicgirl639 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All relationships are worth pursuing, if you have the right mindset. Keep in mind that a relationship between people is a very organic event. It unfolds as it is allowed to by those involved. Most of the time, people experience "failures" in the romance department, because the put too much pressure on how a relationship happens.
Relax and explore what's there between the two of you. Ask him out to coffee or invite him to a group activity. Find a way to spend some time with him.
Your own intuitions will tell you if it can grow into a romantic kind of a relationship.
If you're wanting a "psychic impression" answer.... My intuition is telling me that as long as you don't try to expect or demand too much from him or the relationship too soon, you will find a wonderful experience ahead.
2006-08-30 07:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Shaman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of friendship are you talking about. You said you were friends for 1.5 years. Do you meet often and talk? If so what do you talk? You should be able to judge by the talk whether he wants your friendship or not. Or is it only that you see each other across the road and smile at each other? No harm in being the first to take the lead. Many times, opportunities are lost because of chickening out. If he is not interested, you will know and you can look for someone else instead of being in the dark.
2006-08-30 06:02:58 · answer #2 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should let him no how you feel but u should go about it in a subtle manner you could begin by asking him to be your friend.its better to know where you stand rather than waiting and probably never achieving anything.
2006-08-30 06:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by adore me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and hear he side of the story then you can work out something from there. Good luck.
2006-08-30 06:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better to try than waiting for nothing
2006-08-30 05:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by skat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋