I have been married for 10 years come January. Most of it has been wonderful, but lately I can't seem to take it any longer. I love my wife with all my heart, and I don't want to get divorced. Every time I try and say something, though, she tells me I am yelling. I try and tell her that I am just talking and she tells me I am defensive. I try to talk about the children, and she cuts me off and gets upset with me. After trying to tell her what I am thinking and getting cut off and yelled at, I get upset and start yelling back. Then she says I am getting out of control and tells me she is going to spend the night at her mother's house.
I don't know what to do. Sometimes it seems like I can't please her for anything, and other times I am getting frustrated over her. I can't get her to communicate in a positive way, and most the time she doesn't want to touch me or kiss me. My marriage is on the shambles. How can I get her to realize she is the most important thing to me?!
2006-08-18
16:15:01
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Thunder
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