Just lately my husband + I have taken a lot of knocks in our relationship. I can't recall anything good he's said to me lately and he picks on me constantly on how I prep food, or where I may leave something, or won't give a straight answer to even a routine question of what's on for work today. I feel he is punishing me as we haven't agreed on an issue of argument, but it is critical to find a truce or this distance between us will widen. I have offered many compromises on the argument issue but am being blanked on that, or compromise not good enough.
I am frightened to ask what's going on with us as gentle attempts to do so before (carefully chosen words to not fall into the nagging trap!) have made him push me away even further. I am very torn up inside and weight plummeting for the worry of it. I told him this too + he seems not to care. I think we have a lot going for us and a beautiful 6m baby but have lost our way. How can I reach him that we're in danger here?
2006-08-08
23:17:00
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sweetpeachmummy
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Marriage & Divorce