My husbands a good man, good husband for the most part, excellent dad.. but our sex life is really bad, and causing me emotional heartache.. Basically in the 4 yrs we've been together 3 and a half of them its pretty much been the same .but gotten worse with time..especially since we got married a little over a year ago.. its gotten to if i dont instigate our sex life it doesnt happen, and unfortunately im one of those low self esteem , emotional women, that i need to be desired, craved, wanted, lusted, made to feel pretty ect. so its not the physical part of sex that i crave as much as the emotional part.. He says he loves me, wants me sexually just doesnt have the desire to have sex with me..or anyone for that matter..gives all these excuses cigs, age,stress from work , Stress from his x wife, caffene, ect the list goes on and on.. ive talked to him, ive cried, we've had 2 weekends this month with out any kids, and still nothing..i feel like he loves me, just not attracted to me..
2006-07-31
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