If I asked you on a date (politely), what would you say?
2006-07-31 00:12:56 · 29 answers · asked by voivod 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not if u were just gonna be sad all the time.
2006-07-31 00:23:14 · answer #1 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a little too broad a question. I think you might be asking something else.
There's a girl out there for you. Just pick your place and time carefully. You say you're a gamer? Try the geek chicks at your local gaming store or a competition. I know girls are rare there, but I met a couple of ex boyfriends like that. If you're polite, that's great, but be confident too. You sound like you might have low self esteem. You need to love who you are. If you do that, and smile and enjoy life, girls will like you.
Not every girl will like you. Just remember that. But not every girl will dislike you.
It can sometimes take 99 nos before you get a yes, but that yes will be so much more worth it.
Keep trying, don't lose faith, and don't ever put yourself down. If there's somethng you don't like about yourself, change it. At the end of the day, if that's what you're worried about, looks mean 100% of nothing. Might sound a bit idealistic, but it's true.
Message me in messenger if you want to talk more. You sound like a lot of the other people on my buddy list and I'm sure we could all boost your self esteem a bit. We've all been there.
2006-07-31 07:29:37 · answer #2 · answered by kamorth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a fair question to ask on here. We do not know you. You could be a nut the just escaped from prison , who was in there for murdering 100 people or something.
If you want a date being polite is always a good first step.
2006-07-31 07:16:10 · answer #3 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dating people and asking out people from soemthing online seems like a shy and unusual way to do things. People don't really know who you are and may never know who you are and especially with how things are going now on the internet I would say no and try to stay away from people like that. Also I think be so shy that you have to ask people out on the internet is a weakness (sorry if that was a bit mean just trying to get the words right).
2006-07-31 07:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by poetic1459 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married so right now I'd have to say no. But who knows if the circumstances were different. I'd definitely have to have already met you and know you as a person. But I think that these things would apply to anyone who was asked out on a date.
2006-08-02 02:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it was one of those "i want to ask a girl out but im shy n she might say no" then it would depend,like how long have you know eachother,what type of relationship do you have,would it be appropriate,would it work in general.
If your just asking people you dont know well,no and dont for your own sake
2006-07-31 07:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by kez_124 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are missing all the nonverbals that play a part in attraction. A flat question works only when you know the person.
2006-07-31 07:15:57 · answer #7 · answered by whozethere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
impossible to answer as i dont know you or your personality, if i did know you and i felt comfortable and attracted to you then yes id say yes.. but thats only if i new you in real life not over the computer, i think internet dating is stupid and dangerous
2006-07-31 07:16:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, why not? Of course if I had known you for a period of time.
2006-07-31 07:14:50 · answer #9 · answered by crashonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm washing my hair tonight ill be washing it all week and maybe washing it the week after too!! sorry
2006-07-31 07:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by happyslappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋