My boyfriend and I have been "on and off" for 5 years now, remaining close friends at all times. I truly love him. He has 3 children from a previous marriage (all girls). When we last got back together, we discussed having a child. (that was a major reason for us breaking up, he said he didn't want anymore kids, and I of course want one of my own someday) He said that he DID want to try for a boy, and if he got another girl... so be it, but only one more child. I was satisfied with that, but about a month ago, he said he's been thinking about it, and he doesn't want anymore children, period. I basically was asked to choose between having a child of my own or him. I'm only 24, I have no idea if I will want children in the future, but shouldn't I at least have the option? We have planned to get married next summer. Am I setting myself up for a disaster? Should I just walk out now? I'm clueless.....
2006-07-25
14:23:46
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chrystallec
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