i really liked this my boyfriend. he was the sweetest boy ever and he was so cute also. i thought he was so perfect. but he just told me that we should just stay good friends and that he liked me in another way, and not the girlfriend way. i feel so stupid right now. someone help me out. no hurtful comments plz
2006-07-25 14:23:03 · 8 answers · asked by Janeyy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont feel stupid. We have all been through what you are describing. We sometimes have stronger feelings towards someone that doesnt have the same feelings for us. Its inevitable that it happens 9 out of 10 times in our lives. Either one or the other of a relationship does have more stronger feelings than the other person. In your case.. consider yourself lucky that he told you and not lead you on. Or worse.. avoided you until you finally decided to give up. I guess if it were me.. I would want someone to just tell me they were not interested rather than be afraid of hurting my feelings and letting me go around and wonder. Good Luck.
2006-07-25 14:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not at all stupid, and you should not feel that way. In my long experience, most attractions we have for people of the opposite gender, are not reciprocated. I can tell you when I was your probable age, it happened to me a number of times.
So, this is not the first time, nor the last time it will happen to you. It is sad, and it always hurts, but it is a very common and normal thing to happen. Part of life, part of growing up, part of life at any age.
Let me say to you, I am sorry, I know it hurts, because it happens to us all.
2006-07-25 21:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by retiredslashescaped1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel stupid. What's wrong about wanting to be with someone? The sooner you realize that, in general, most boys are stupid, the better you'll feel. Go out and find yourself a man, no more boys.
2006-07-25 21:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look love doesn't work like that. It really isn't a two way street. You can love someone without them loving you. Love is to give / not to get. If you think it is to recieve then you are setting yourself up for dissapointment.
2006-07-25 21:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by TMAC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might get a better name. Penguins that poop doesn't turn anyone on.
Anyway, don't sweat it as there are plenty more penguins on the ice floes out there. Sydney Crosby's a pretty cute Penguin.
2006-07-25 21:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by fugutastic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you find another man....your ex bf(who just wanted to be "friends") will realize what an idiot he was to leave you. =]]
2006-07-25 21:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by the coolest person ever<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since he say that, then u might as well forget about him! it might be hurtful but since he say that mean he not interested in u so get on with your life!!!
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