All categories - 17 July 2006

i am an 18 yr old girl.i was sexually molested by my cousin for almost upto 5 yrs-from when i was 6 or 7 till upto when i was 11.i dunno why i cudnt realize it was all wrong back then.......so anyway,i hooked up with a real nice guy 4 yrs back.i told him all abt it and he was real supportive and dint touch me at all cuz of the fear that he might hurt me in some way.last year i kissed him for the first time and then i realized i cud trust him enuf so we made out this March.i'm really close to him now and we almost came close enuf to having sex last month.
after coming this far,i suddenly realized m not ok with him physically.i somehow keep remembering the whole childhood thing all over again.
am i doing something wrong?am i leading him on?its not that i dont love him......i do,from the bottom of my heart.i trust him too.its only that i dont want to share my body with him or anyone else again for a long time....is this common?

2006-07-17 23:01:50 · 9 answers · asked by questiongirl14 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am so confused, have been married for 8 years and have a child. A couple of years after getting married, I started a friendship on line with Alex. A nice guy also married with 3 kids & it was fine with me, overall I just needed a friend. Then 5 years later we finally meet in person. Slowly a relationship develops, of course no one else knows because of our situations. We now have been together 18 months & I feel we should move forward. He says he loves me and he does show it in many ways. But we are both scared on what will happen next, he also worries about the kids and stuff. We definetely show love and care for each other and is very noticeable to other people. We have sacrificied so much to continue, that it would be crazy to end it. Recently our relationship has nothing but grown stronger. He says that I am very important to him. And that I worry too much. But sometimes I am so confused about this whole thing that I feel it should end. : (.. dont know what to do here.

2006-07-17 23:01:50 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Do people who are homosexual actually want to be attracted to the same sex as they are?
I was criticized by one of my ex friends about not having any respect for homosexuals.
I would like to know, if they had the chance to be, would they stop being the way they are?
And do they think what they are doing is wrong?

2006-07-17 23:01:49 · 24 answers · asked by TS2 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-07-17 23:01:44 · 20 answers · asked by seenu 4 in Skin & Body

2006-07-17 23:01:40 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The US is not winning anything but haterated . I hate to see the USA my country looked upon that way...

2006-07-17 23:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by interested 4 in Other - Politics & Government

If Darth Vader was so inhibited by his suit, why couldn't Obi-Wan attack him while he was young instead of waiting till he was on the Death Star with Luke?

2006-07-17 23:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Movies

2006-07-17 23:00:35 · 3 answers · asked by Sanjeev C 1 in Delhi and NCR

2006-07-17 23:00:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Philosophy

The Netherlands cemented its reputation as Europe's most socially liberal country today when a new political party formed by paedophiles was told it could contest this year's general election.

Brotherly Love, Freedom and Diversity party (PNVD) wants to cut the age of consent from 16 to 12 and to legalise child pornography. "The freedom of expression, the freedom of assembly and the freedom of association should be seen as the foundations of the democratic rule of law and the PNVD is also entitled to these freedoms," the court in The Hague said in a statement.

[Guardian Online]

How tolerant can we be? When will the UK be next?

2006-07-17 23:00:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics

2006-07-17 23:00:23 · 31 answers · asked by sure 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-07-17 23:00:00 · 8 answers · asked by Not Tellin 4 in Other - Food & Drink

2006-07-17 22:59:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Fashion & Accessories

2006-07-17 22:59:43 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Social Science

2006-07-17 22:59:40 · 5 answers · asked by R S 4 in Marriage & Divorce

when someone ask you a penny for your thoughts and you put your two cents worth in what happens to the extra penny

2006-07-17 22:59:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Jokes & Riddles

Okay i dont want to come off as a nut or anything..and im FAR from religious, but NOTHING in my biology books ever told me just HOW a fetus looks as it develops..so in researching this..*i was curious to see what my kids looked like when i was pregnant* i stumbled upon a site that has ACTUAL abortion pictures. i was expecting a mass of tissue or something...i feel so stupid and im pissed! these images are very graphic! but i sat here and cried for a straight hour before i typed out this. and before an hour ago...i was pro-choice. no religious mumbo jumbo, no scientific talk, no moral agrument could have prepared me for the horribly gruesome images i saw. i just dont know what to think anymore!
http://www.priestsforlife.org/resources/abortionimages/fetaldevelopment.htm

2006-07-17 22:59:01 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6 in Pregnancy

2006-07-17 22:58:56 · 19 answers · asked by bramma 1 in Skin & Body

2006-07-17 22:58:55 · 8 answers · asked by neelamhb 1 in Cricket

can anyone pls help? i nid to noe all i can about hydrolysis and its effect on geography matters... pls help... this is for my school project XD

2006-07-17 22:58:54 · 5 answers · asked by Benedict 2 in Geography

Thanks for any help and advices u can offer :)

2006-07-17 22:58:25 · 1 answers · asked by Sunshine 1 in Software

2006-07-17 22:58:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

Simone De Beauvoir said 'one is not born a woman but becomes one'. How far do you agree? Does society construct the feminine and make us socially acceptable 'females/women' or does our 'biology/sex' define us as female?

2006-07-17 22:58:20 · 13 answers · asked by Lauren C 1 in Gender Studies

2006-07-17 22:58:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Society & Culture

features

2006-07-17 22:57:57 · 29 answers · asked by vineeth_nayana 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-07-17 22:57:49 · 8 answers · asked by crystal_bluehorizon 3 in Software

.... what would they be? And why.... what are you? This question is purely for fun.... no haters please.

And before you start... This is a question that should hopefully be about complementing different races for thier different attributes.... what do you like???

2006-07-17 22:57:36 · 20 answers · asked by joinlondon 2 in Singles & Dating

Pascaline

Abacus

Napiers Bones

Please answer soon as possible, my little sis needs this for her homework and unfortunately i don't have enough time to do some research or let her do it herself because i'm using the computer for my other research homeworks.

2006-07-17 22:57:01 · 9 answers · asked by ramengirl 2 in Homework Help

Anyone? Addicting songs? Decade don't matter!

2006-07-17 22:56:46 · 15 answers · asked by siddharthm91 2 in Music