My heart is only attracted to large, curvy women, even though most of the women in my environment are such. This deep attraction to a type of woman that I have failed to meet in my day to day life (internet services have failed to help me in my area) causes me extreme angst. Mentally/rationally I have no problem dating thin or average appearance women - I have dated many, I liked their personalities very much but I was not attracted to them physically - I realize this lookism may not not be fair my heart is not in it - in fact, I actually dislike the bodies of skinny/average women. I prefer the curvy voluptuous type with ample curves, and have done so since I was a pre-teen. Does the fact that my preference has been counterproductive to inner peace for decades mean that I have a character/psychological flaw - and my main question is how can I change what my heart prefers - reeasoning has failed to change my heart. -I dont seek judgement so much as possible corrective course of action.
2006-07-14
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