I am totally clueless as to what to do about it. I was so excited to become a mother-in-law as I only have one son and thought this would be a chance to gain a daughter. But my d-i-l wants nothing to do with me. We rent a house to them - very cheap. Don't visit without an "appointment." When grandchildren came in the picture, she does not like me to interact with them. Constantly tells me I did something wrong. Don't fix their bottle position. Don't pick them up. No is usually the first word I hear. Other relatives get to see them more than we do - once a month. Don't ask if we would like to do something special with the kids. i.e., they let a friends Grandma make my grandson's first birthday cake when I made many beautiful theme cakes for my son's birthdays. We are never first. We learned they are moving away from other people. Have tried talking to my son, he says it's nothing we have done, just the way she is. She doesn't seem close to her own parents. What can we do?
2006-07-13
04:37:02
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