Ok, one of my good friends, who happens to be male, is having a party for his 25th birthday. He claims that we are really close friends and I'm one of the most important people in the world to him. I called him earlier today to ask him if he wanted to go with my to my company picnic on his birthday and he said that he couldn't go. Then he asked me what time it would be and I told him and he said again he couldn't go and this time casually mentioned "yeah, I'm having a party for my birthday, you can come if you'd like." I can come if I like?? In my opinion, that's not a real invitation expressing that you'd like me to be there, that's something you casually say to an associate, not someone who's one of your best friends. Tell me, what do you think?? Especially guys!! I know I'm looking at this from a female perspective, guys, would you be this nonchalant about inviting one of your closest friends to your 25th birthday party?? Thanks in advance for your thoughtful answers. :)
2006-07-11
21:42:53
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