My bf and I have been commuting for the last 3 months, 5 hr drive each way on the wkd to visit each other. Very stressful but only way to see each other- he told me today before I left his place that he doesnt think he can do this ( the drive back and forth) as much as he would like because of financial reasons and b/c it dirsrupts his life too much- and he cant save money and barely can make ends meet.
We are in a long distance relationship cuz he wasnt ready to live together when we lived in the same state- and I feel that seeing each other less will kill the relationship - we already lack the trust factor- and I feel his family is convincing him to drive less to see me, so that I would move there- I already moved once for him but he didnt want to live together- he also says he will ask me to marry him but still no ring- dont even know if he can afford it .. i believe he loves me but says he feels like a lousy bf-- i love him but dont know
what to believe or do anymore : (
2006-07-10
20:40:53
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