The women you are with use to be a wild sex machine -- threesomes, oral, other chicks. That is until she met you. Now she tells you that the your relationship should mean more than sex (plus you are getting none of that wild stuff).
Are you just the bill paying baby making machine?
or
An idiot (she told you higher meaning was above sex) for being pissed that you are working your butt off all day long to pay the bills for the rest of your life for a woman that has reserved the "wild sex" for meaningless realtionships.
2006-07-10 20:41:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your an idiot! It takes two to make a realtionship. I assume she's happy with you being her meal ticket but your not getting what you need. The way I see it if she wants the realtionship to continue she better start making an effort to please you. Or she may end up alone.
2006-07-10 21:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this question is that anything anyone tells you here will be based on less information than either you or your girlfriend are privy to. So, what I have to advise you is this:
(1) Ask yourself what you were expecting out of this relationship when you got involved.
(2) Ask yourself what you are expecting out of the relationship now.
(3) Next, determine whether your expectations in 1 and 2 above were/are realistic or reasonable.
(4) After you've been honest with yourself, let your girlfriend know what your expectations of her and the relationship are and give her the opportunity to answer questions 1, 2 and 3 above, regarding herself.
(5) Based on your discussions, you have to make a judgement call and determine whether this relationship suits your needs/wants and whether what is expected of you by your girlfriend matches what you are willing to give.
Sadly, there is no absolute solution to matters regarding relationships since every situation is different. However, you are responsible for your own emotional, physical and spiritual health. Keep these things in mind and you may be able to make a more objective decision regarding this and any other relationship.
2006-07-11 03:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Unsilent Observer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have read the questions you have posted..you sound very sexually frustrated.or bitter..Maybe your wife really didnt do these things, she may have told you this as she fiqures this is what men want..Maybe you should talk to her about this. She may think everything is okay in the bedroom..Women are intuitive, however we are not mind readers..
2006-07-12 09:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by heather b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's settled down w/ you, and wants to be only yours, and you only hers, and there's a problem? leave the wild crap for the porno industry, sweetie, it'll be thankful to you for keeping it in business...
2006-07-11 03:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you're getting screwed everyway but the right way to me.
2006-07-11 03:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to live alone, Im afraid.
2006-07-11 03:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Big hands Big feet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋