My BF plays video games from 6pm until 3 in the morning 4 nights a week and sometimes more. We live together. I think that if he was really into me he wouldn't play as much. What do you think?
2006-07-10 20:41:52 · 11 answers · asked by GoudasGoddess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not hurting anyone so why is this a problem? Now you could sit down with him and ask him to cut back a day or two. The bigger question is why did you move in with him if this bothered you so much. I'm sure he didn't just start doing this after you moved in together. If you can't deal and he's not willing to cut back as much as you want.... well time to go your separate ways.
2006-07-10 21:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl sorry to say it but its more than that...
i think he is playing games to avoid being with u...
or he is taking u for granted and feels that no matter what he does u still will be there when he s ready and calls ur name u will come running to him anyways..
MY advise is to ask him to play but for an hour or so and if cant do that then to choose between u and the VG's.
U got to give every person some space but this is beyond needing space..this is like ignoring u totally..
2006-07-10 20:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by gentle_cute_man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody needs different amounts of space and time to do their own thing. and people change all the time, too. in 5 years he may never ever play any kinds of video games at all. he's doing his thing. you should do yours. you need to know whether or not this guy is somebody that you can tolerate being with. I don't know you and I don't know him, but I know that nobody is perfect and he could have much worse habits than video games. it's a matter of what your own personal tolerance levels are, but I have to admit that it sounds like his worst crime in your eyes is that he's not mooning over you day and night. Maybe you need a hobby too.
2006-07-10 20:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No honey....4.2 is obsessive...so u jus got saved by a fraction..:-) but practically speaking u shud learn ways which make him play wid u rathr then video games....Buy some new lingerie...give him a surprise now n then....like wearing nothing beneath an apron...n asking him to help u in d kitchen...n lots of things...try to spice up ur life....he'll get more spicy watching u doing tht....All d best!!!
2006-07-10 20:52:44 · answer #4 · answered by Bond007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, he should be playing with you instead of a video game don't ya think? He needs so help. Might I suggest smashing the video game system.
2006-07-10 20:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They say that when you find your soul-mate, nothing else matters. Unless you are a gamer yourself, I would seriously think about your relationship.
2006-07-10 21:01:54 · answer #6 · answered by low1sk8er 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you were really into him you would learn how to play.
2006-07-10 20:46:57 · answer #7 · answered by tortasinqueso 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is u r bf age
and if it is so he is not in to u belive me
2006-07-10 22:57:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby does it every night
2006-07-10 21:04:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has a problem and it's not you.
2006-07-10 20:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by Jack Nicholson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋