for several years. i dont have any real attachments with men and starting to be concerned ill be single forever(im 35) any advice
2006-07-10 20:42:17 · 22 answers · asked by theycallmetrouble 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want a boyfriend, make sure that you like him and are willing to be in a serious commitment with him, or at least you feel you may be if you get to know him better, and won't break his heart. Below are some things that show ways to get a man by your side.
Steps
If you do not already know him, then introduce yourself. Let him know you are there! If he is interested in you enough to want to
get to know you better himself, he will add in some conversation
eventually.
Show interest in his life. What's his favorite sport? TV show?
Song? Movie? Find out and you will have something to talk about.
Make it easy for him to be friendly and talkative with you, but not overpowering.
Invite him to a party or event that you think both of you would
enjoy together.
Be friendly with him alone until he makes it clear that he really likes you, and wants to be around you.
Just be yourself and let things unwind themselves.
At the end of the date, see if you really liked it or if you want to go on another or not.
Tell him that you had a nice time (e.g. "I had lots of fun. We should do this more again!").
Tips
If the person you like is shy, then be very gentle to him but admire him for his strengths. Few men can resist being told how manly they are unless the girl who tells them is one they are very uninterested in.
Look good! Make sure your fashionably dressed. Don't go overboard on the makeup, though.
Do not be afraid. If you feel you can go up to him without him bashing your heart against the wall (whether on purpose or not) and you notice his interest in you, then you are probably okay.
Don't become plastic (plastic surgery, all makeup, etc.). It will just make you ugly when it comes off, even if you were pretty to begin with.
Try to talk to your crush's friends, too.
Be nice, not fake. Just be yourself around him!
GOOD LUCK :)
2006-07-10 20:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
everybody is meant to be with some one ,anyway being a bbw is not a big deal,also u said u were attractive so i guess u are lucky beside there are many guys who go for the personality,just drop the desperate attitude and get in there.
2006-07-11 03:47:23 · answer #2 · answered by mohamed k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's a bbw? Maybe you're just the independent type. Loosen up a bit, have fun. Go dancing.
2006-07-11 03:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find you an insecure man. Insecure men will settle for anything, even fool themselves about liking BBW! Good luck : )
2006-07-11 03:46:24 · answer #4 · answered by schnewschnew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are plenty of men who are ok with, lets say, bigger girls. So if a man shows a little interest, make sure HE knows YOU'RE interested. Careful with that "killer" personality... could lead to "just friends" syndrome. If he thinks you're a pal, it might be difficult to see you in a romantic or sexual way. FLIRT! Give him a chance to think of you sexually. I don't mean act slutty, just flirt...
Good luck, baby!!!
2006-07-11 03:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by waahooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just goto places you like and find guys that are more like you. If you can hold a conversation with the guy then there is a possibilities of compatibility. There is someone for everyone in this world, you just have to find them.
2006-07-11 03:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by dre 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell me how to get a 35 year old woman, and I will tell you how to get a 34 year old guy....
2006-07-11 03:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People sometimes try too hard to get the attention from someone else. Be yourself and let things flow.
2006-07-11 03:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by low1sk8er 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are surly interested but need a signal from you to approach. learn to show them that U R ready for a relationship.
2006-07-11 03:46:07 · answer #9 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i love bbw's. you sound like someone i would be interested in, so i am sure that if you make yourself available (put the bait out) someone will bite-lol.
2006-07-11 03:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋