I can't seem to be flirty with guys.....any suggestions on how to be social but flirty with guys??? but without looking trampy...
2006-07-10 20:40:08 · 4 answers · asked by ivygery4ever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Getting a guy to notice or like you involves the use of basic social skills. You should be honest, direct, pleasant, and reasonable. If you really like a guy, but you haven't really talked to him - you're dying to, but you're too scared - here are some tips to help you say hello.
Steps
Get a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc.
Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not.
Don't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time.
Smile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to
everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!"
Flirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there.
Try to be around him often, such as sitting near him.
Show off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly.
Try to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them).
Go up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him.
Tell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together.
Be a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you
believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect.
Tips
Don't change yourself too much.
A good way to start a conversation is to ask him a question - something about an interest you might have in common, or even what the time is. Make sure you hide your watch!
Sit close to him an touch him on his arm to show him you're interested.
Listen to him and don't interrupt him when he is talking. That makes them really annoyed and it's rude!
Act confident but try not to seem stuck up.
'Bad clothes' are those old pants you used for painting the fence and the sweatshirt with the pony on it.
Ask him out if you're sure he's interested. Most boys love it when girls ask them out.
Consider helping him out with other things like homework and social problems.
Warnings
No guy likes a person who is snobby.
If he tries to do anything you're not comfortable with, tell him that you are not ready for that stuff yet. If he's cool with that, great. If not, then he's not really the nice guy you thought he was.
Don't wear bad clothes when you decide to be brave and walk up to your man.
Make sure to brush your teeth!
Be sure to have gum, breath mints, listerine strips, etc. around in case you need to freshen up quickly.
Don't tell him lies.
If the guy is a jerk, but you find him attractive, don't let him take advantage of you. Find out more about him before you let things get too serious.
You can't get everyone to notice you. You cannot get everyone to like you all the time!
2006-07-10 20:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of Im a guy so nice meeting you (ha ha ha not funny) Anyways just be yourself and the most reasonable thing i can think of to slove your troubles is to go out dancing.You'll be social everyone will be sexy but not trampy and be flirty by dancing.(mexican is best,more flirty)
2006-07-10 20:48:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't flirt it's pointless and stupid. Find a guy you like and just get on with it.
2006-07-10 21:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u have a picture so that we can look at you?
2006-07-12 12:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by rico_the_majestic_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋