My boyfriend and I of 2 years have been talking of having a baby together. He's 44 and I'm 33. We're in love and want to be together the rest of our lives. He says he wants us to have his last name and will marry me. Our vasectomy reversal appt is coming up really fast. There's no engagement ring yet, just talk. Should I put the vasectomy appt on the back burner until I'm at least engaged to this guy? I love him very much and want a baby with him. We both do not want to live under separate roofs with a child and have that agreement under our belt. Marriage isn't that important to me anymore but it's nice to at least be engaged or have some sort of committment in place. I've been married twice and don't want to get hurt again so marriage is scary but the baby thing is not scary. Is something wrong with this idea?
2006-07-10
05:46:15
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