My gf of 4 1/2 years wanted a break...fine. We have been seeing each other from time to time over the past few months, but still no real change. Over that time I have grown to realize that I do want to be with her, but also understand that I do not love her for the past, I love her for the girl see is right now and I do want to be with her. Our encounters lately have been fun, full of laughter and flirting, but Im stuck on what to do.
Ive been sweet to her...I have suprised her at work wih coffee ect...I want to show her that I am still a good guy and I believe that with a little effort this can work and be awesome. But I cant help but wonder, why is the door being left open if she doesnt want to be with me? Why does she flirt and contact me? Why does she flaunt her body in front of me?
I figured out pretty quick that the more I push the more she has to pull back. Is there any way I can let her know how I feel without seeming needy and desperate?
2006-06-25
15:54:18
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dutch1584
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Singles & Dating