My fiance and I have been together for 5 years, engaged for 5 months. He was married long before meeting me, the marriage lasted shorter than a year. He had a child with this woman who he now has full custody of. During the years everything has been fine with her, no "drama". However there is one thing that bothers me, she still has his last name, and does not want to give it up. Her reasons are that it's too complicated, she's had for a while now, etc. Although it may seem petty, I don't feel right honoring a name that a previous woman had and STILL has. It's not the fact that she had it that bothers me, it's the fact that she doesn't want to give it up. Is that wrong of me? Am I being petty? Is it JUST a name?
2006-06-22
04:58:53
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