My fiance and I have been together for a year and a half. I honestly love him with all of my heart. We have our ups and downs, more downs then ups. He smokes weed and drinks alcohol on a daily basis. I can deal with that. He also uses another substance like twice a week. He has an addiction to porn as well. The porn bothers me the most, because he watches it every time I leave the house. He has lied to me about it over and over again. In the begining I watched it with him. At times, he would watch it then turn it off and go to sleep. He has sex with me like twice a week, sometimes 3. He says he wants me to be more aggressive sexually. I can't. All I can think about is hiw he watched it all day and was bustin' to the videos. I feel degraded. I've offered to do anything they do in the video. When I perform oral he closes his eyes and gets quiet. He was in prison for several years. He has problems staying hard or ejaculating. I love him, but we have big problems w/ sex
2006-06-19
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