My sister is getting married and asked me to be a bridesmaid. The top half of my back is tattooed (nothing offensive at all), and she has asked me to cover it for the wedding. It is too big to be covered, and I have had it for three years, LONG before she got engaged, and she has always known about it.
Personally I think it is rude that she asked me to be in her wedding and then asked me to change my appearance, while saying I should be honored to do so. None of the bridesmaids dresses she picked will cover my tattoo, and we're not wearing shawls or anything... and it's too big for make-up, so I don't know how she thought I would cover it.
She waited until we were shopping for dresses with the other girls to tell me, then insisted I try on dresses that exposed my entire back.
Am I the only one who thinks she's being bridezilla-ish and a bit rude? Would it be rude to decline the "honor" of being a bridesmaid and tell her I don't really want to be in her wedding?
2007-12-22
18:28:01
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Lola
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