How do you avoid being rude, yet disassociate yourself from an antisocial person? This is a weird question about a strange person.
She makes use of our local group - to "introduce herself to prospects earning 50X per year". She has wrecked two marriages in our group over 15 years; had a fling with one woman, who had a heart attack, then she moved in with a well paid man, who also died - she complained that she didn't get custody of his step child (and his property!) She then had an affair with a man who has no idea what she was like. She can be very charming; this guy is too young to believe any of this. He's 23, she's 38 - and it would be wonderful to see her marry - her stated goal - and stop manipulating people. Nothing we can do, anyway. But how do we all say no thanks to the wedding invitation? We don't ever want to see her rejoin - he's OK, we don't want to make him feel bad - but how to turn down what he thinks is an excellent celebration?
2006-09-21
18:20:32
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