How do you avoid being rude, yet disassociate yourself from an antisocial person? This is a weird question about a strange person.
She makes use of our local group - to "introduce herself to prospects earning 50X per year". She has wrecked two marriages in our group over 15 years; had a fling with one woman, who had a heart attack, then she moved in with a well paid man, who also died - she complained that she didn't get custody of his step child (and his property!) She then had an affair with a man who has no idea what she was like. She can be very charming; this guy is too young to believe any of this. He's 23, she's 38 - and it would be wonderful to see her marry - her stated goal - and stop manipulating people. Nothing we can do, anyway. But how do we all say no thanks to the wedding invitation? We don't ever want to see her rejoin - he's OK, we don't want to make him feel bad - but how to turn down what he thinks is an excellent celebration?
2006-09-21 18:20:32 · 1 answers · asked by WomanWhoReads 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Go to the wedding. In the mean time just keep saying how great is is that he's with her and helping her out after all she did to those people in her previous relationships. Tell him to go see an attorney about a pre-nup "just in case" she really has not changed.
2006-09-23 19:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by seandashark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋