This may be long, but please bear with me people. I want some advice. I'm 27 years old and I want to have a child. I have an average living, nothing too extravgant, and I have a boyfriend and we live in our apartment together. I really don't plan on marrying, I just don't think it's right for me. Now reading this, it may seem that I'm misguided, or not ready or what have you, but I'm not, so I hope that those types of responses can be withheld. I'm just lost @ the crossroads of: in terms of my age and my stage of life I think now would be the time to have children, are there SUPPOSED to be certain things in thier place, ie finances, marriage, house etc.?, Taking into consideration of my age would that be selfish to child who didn't ask to be here?? Whats the defining line here? I hope a lot of you can weigh in on this. Also, please know that I'm only asking other peoples opionins, the ultimate decision will be mine, of course. Thanks, and please be serious about this.
2006-07-23
15:32:46
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