me amd this guy have been friends for like 3 months and I have like one of the hugest crushes on him ever. I dont usualy fall for guys like him but he is different, he is some one i can talk to, laught and cry with, he has a girl friend and well i think this is the 2 in 1 month and i dont want to be the 3rd in a one month period. I try to be myself because i know he is my friend for that. but the girls he dates are so different from me and different from each other i dont think he has a type. i dont like to say make him notice me and i dont want to say like me because i know he already knows i am alive. and we are already friends i just want to be more than friends.
2006-07-23 15:34:20 · 5 answers · asked by Kristy Marie 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
All those girlfriends in such a short time sounds like a 'beard'. Be friends, but look to other attainable pastures.
2006-07-23 16:13:50 · answer #1 · answered by mitch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dates 3 girls in a month, you're looking at an optimal 2 weeks of being with him. Is this worth risking whatever type of friendship you have now?
2006-07-23 22:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by lavendergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would find out first how involve he is with this woman.
start by asking for casual hang out.
ask questions about their situation.
find out how much he is into this new girl friend.
since they are only out for a month, he is probably still
checking her out.
ask lots of question. get him to talk about things he like
and dislike about her.
if he is not completely happy and satisfy.
you would ask him out more often, ask him more questions
to get him talkt about why he is unhappy
about his current relationship.
I think getting him to talk about this will get him notice you.
at the same time think about if both of you would be
happy if you were in thier situation.
after all that if you still crazy about him.
take a deeeep breath, and let him know you wish
that he is with you instead of her.
don't worry about how different you are from the girl he is dating.
that is irrelevent.
however, if u find out that he is crazy about this girl.
please take care of youself, let go of him.
someone else will come, I promise, and you will be in love
again.
good luck :)
2006-07-24 01:33:59 · answer #3 · answered by a_fish_with_no_name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dunno... maybe just act like you are playing around and ask if he's ever wondered what it would be like if you two were more then friends. Maybe slip in there the fact that you have thought about it.
2006-07-23 22:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by Indigo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take off your shirt. Oh you probably meant in a non-slutty way ....
2006-07-23 23:01:10 · answer #5 · answered by Nerdly Stud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋