Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender - June 2007

A little while ago, I accidentally tripped out of the trans closet... about 4 months ago with my mom and 2 months ago with my brother. My dad does not know, and I want to keep it that way.

The thing that keeps causing trouble is my choice of undergarments. I am a biowoman, but identify as male, so I wear traditional tighty-whities, which I bought about 7 months ago with my own money. But my brother keeps accusing me of stealing his, which is impossible because he is so much smaller than I am, and my mom wants me to buy girly underwear because she thinks I am "headed for heartache", seeing as I'll be in college this fall.

How can I get them to lay off and give me some privacy? I figure that it's on my butt so it's my business... and the only way they even found out is because I forgot to wear a belt a couple of times. The cat's out of the bag/closet, but not willingly... what should I do?

2007-06-22 18:00:33 · 8 answers · asked by Rat 7

while freedom on the net has obviously allowed so much sex oriented discussions, how about centering more on issues like responsible parenthood, sharing reflections on how to make life more meaningful, sharing tips on how to be successful careerwise or on the job, sharing counsel on how to make a relationship more rewarding emotionally and spiritually... because there is more to life than being horny and being voyeuristic/exhibitionistic.

2007-06-22 17:30:20 · 7 answers · asked by frerevivian 2

My friend is straight but wants to know how to talk to straight girls without offending them.

2007-06-22 16:52:12 · 5 answers · asked by Melanie 1

2007-06-22 15:47:53 · 4 answers · asked by Arcus H 1

2007-06-22 15:46:26 · 4 answers · asked by Arcus H 1

Should gays be able to access IVF treatments and why?
Are you for or against it? Explain

2007-06-22 15:30:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been seeing a counselor through my divorce and he doesn't act gay. But when I see him now ,he does strange things. He will sit there and lip movements that look like fishes
mouth when they move. He keeps taking the ring off his right hand and playing with it so I notice. He made a Fruedian slip and called me honey. Like he was talking to a wife or girlfriend.
The way he sits isn't the same. I'm not interested in him. But are all these signs for something? I would like to hear from a psychotherapists,

2007-06-22 15:08:02 · 7 answers · asked by karen m 1

2007-06-22 15:07:10 · 10 answers · asked by realchurchhistorian 4

2007-06-22 14:38:21 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

So me and my guy friend (hes gay also) were at the beach today and we were laying on the sand minding our own business when these two guys were walking by talking pretty loudly...well naturally if two people walk past im generally curious and look weather its a male or a female...well they were talking loudly which attracted more attention to them so me and my friend both looked up at them the same time and they saw us both look up at them and as tehy were walking away one of teh guys mumbled f***ing h*mo's...I got sooo pissed b/c #1 they were ugly not even attractive and #2 i was just looking up to look up i wasn't checking them out...it just made me and my friend soo mad...i haven't been made fun of for being gay since the beg. of h.s....everyone i know is pretty accepting...this just made me soo mad...why is there such hateful, conceided, ignorant people out there...im sick of it! what can be done? P.s.-this question was reported by someone can you believe it...ugh

2007-06-22 14:36:49 · 19 answers · asked by Bhow423 3

We were friends for a long time. somewhere along the way I developed feelings for her. She doesn't roll that way. I lost her as my friend. She totaly cut me off. I told her about how i felt, not so i could get with her, but jus to be honest with her. Now i feel like a idiot, and totally hurt. How do I deal with this?

2007-06-22 14:35:09 · 8 answers · asked by Lady N. 1

There is a lady in her late 40's, never has been married before-no kids, her occupation is a school principal and in her teaching days I remember her as being a control freak she loved the disiplinarian role.

2007-06-22 14:09:55 · 11 answers · asked by RexD 1

Its not gay if your doing it to feed your family

2007-06-22 13:43:00 · 21 answers · asked by BillG 1

JULES !!!! =)

2007-06-22 13:41:55 · 21 answers · asked by peaches 69 3

lolz....lesbian advice always comes in handy soo where are my lesbians at?

2007-06-22 12:07:33 · 7 answers · asked by CaCutie 1

be honest ppl

2007-06-22 11:32:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

that r teens ranging from 13-18

2007-06-22 11:30:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Women are strange sometimes, aren't we?... We say we'd leave her if she ever cheated on you but they say something slick or apoligize and here we come crawling back... If that's not the case, then what was it that made you leave for good after she cheated (or vice versa... if you cheated, what made her leave). When is it really over?

2007-06-22 11:11:20 · 8 answers · asked by Essence 4

2007-06-22 11:03:24 · 5 answers · asked by levy 2

I am a male, I'm gay and I have a friend James, who i have been sexual with for a year. He has a gf and has been out as bisexual for the past 9 months. We've had sex, made out, cuddled, and done other sexual acts. However,about a month ago, he came out and said he was gay. A couple weeks before he said he was gay, he kept talking about a kid his age that he knew for a fact was gay and wasnt ready to come out and that he had been the only person this kid had come out to. I suspected that this "kid" he was talking about had to be himself. He also kept asking me stuff like "what if i was gay?" over again. I already suspected he was gay cuz he loves the color hot pink, his favorite movie of all time is brokeback mountain, as well as mean girls, he likes getting his nails done and eyebrows waxed (his gf calls him for fashion advice) Plus girl on girl action grosses him out. A week after he came out, he said he was joking. That he is still bi and the gay kid was me!? Is my friend gay or bi?

2007-06-22 10:55:38 · 9 answers · asked by Jesse M 1

i am 16 year old male and think i am bisesual and dont waht to do

2007-06-22 10:53:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey guys what do u first notice in a girl? What really attracts u? I am very curious and really just wanna know! Thanx a lot!

2007-06-22 10:21:35 · 14 answers · asked by Fluteluvur 2

2007-06-22 10:20:55 · 17 answers · asked by troymariner 5

I don't see why you need to be proud about something anyone on earth could do. Where is the achievement?

At 55 I feel proud if I can sometimes perform without viagra but I think I have a right to be proud because that is an achievement at my age.

What is it about what you do that makes you proud?

2007-06-22 10:13:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-06-22 09:58:57 · 9 answers · asked by Karasu 1

2007-06-22 09:35:18 · 4 answers · asked by jroc_daking 1

I always write charming answers, insulting everybody every now and then just to make everyone feel comfy, I struggle with "CONSIDER", I say "CONCIDER"

Well that it's a very complicate word to spell where I come from.

2007-06-22 09:27:55 · 34 answers · asked by It Doesn't Matter 2

I'm gonna shave my legs to try and feel like a women and i just wan't to know how long it will take to grow back

2007-06-22 09:23:26 · 7 answers · asked by Sean M 1

When I lived in West Hollywood, Los Angeles, roughly 90% of my friends in my apartment were gay, or classified themsleves as gay.

The human being notices patterns. I noticed my friends would typically have relationship, after relationship, after relationship as often as most people change their underwear, and often would bed down with virtually anything and everything. I have seen statistics(although it was just one study), that for instance, a gay man in his prime in San Francisco would have on average 200-250 "partners" per year.

This made me think. Is the real problem with having a relationship with a woman, the fact, most woman are not "easy", and require at least some form of courtship? Let's face it, there is a reason why lesbians buy strap-ons...they want the very same thing a real man would give them, but somehow, they want it from a woman, and the same goes for a gay man, yet intimacy does not seem to be part of the equation(and I am not confusing sex for intimacy).

2007-06-22 09:07:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey
Im a sixteen year old guy. I feel attracted to girls and guys. However I can not see myself in a long-term relationship with a guy, only girls. However I still feel attracted to guys. So am I bisexual. If so, should I come out? Is it nessisary to come out? and if my parents are against it (I dont know if they are, because I have never talked to this with them) what will I do because I am only 16, its not like I can leave.
Thank you soo much for your help during this difficult time.

2007-06-22 08:59:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous