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i am 16 year old male and think i am bisesual and dont waht to do

2007-06-22 10:53:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

23 answers

bend over and find out

2007-06-22 10:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by bayareart1 6 · 0 5

If you don't know what to do, then don't do anything. At least, sexually.

Relax. You are young and still have some growing to do. Things may change later on. Just hang out with your friends, enjoy you last high school years, go to the prom and have fun. You will discover where you sit in the sexual preference spectrum soon enough. And no matter what, you will be ok!

2007-06-22 12:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Louie 5 · 0 0

By 16-17 most kids both male and female have experimented with same sex relationships.By the time they get to 18 they have their minds and bodies sorted so don't worry too much at this stage and forget about lables and tags your feelings will come through one way or the other.Take care and good luck

2007-06-25 08:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by AFDEE 3 · 0 0

If you think you are bisexual then you almost certainly are. Firstly, there's no problem with that - we are all on a continuum between totally gay and totally hetro. It's how you deal with it that matters. My advice would be to RELAX, don't be hard on yourself, take things as they come and explore every aspect of yourself as you go through life. The happiest people are those who accept themselves for what they are - they will have no regrets later.

2007-06-22 11:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by Terry W 1 · 0 0

Well, good question. What do you want to do? You can start exploring, if you feel you're ready - but that might open a whole flood of emotion you aren't prepared for. It might also just be fun. There are usually lots of support groups out there now for teens who are questioning their sexuality. Check out the web for one in your area - meet other people who are also questioning and talk to them about your experiences... they might help you too.

2007-06-22 11:12:28 · answer #5 · answered by Roger P 1 · 0 0

Don't worry bout it mate. I'm gonna be completely honest and tell you that when I was 15, a boy in my year came out as bi. I wasn't horrible to him cos of it but it did gross me out. Now I'm 17 and there's loads of gays and bi's in my college. They're no different from me and I'm even able to joke with them bout it. You might get a bit of stick when you first come out, but people will mature and have different attitudes. I noticed that people had different attitudes wen I started in year 12. Don't be ashamed, cos u've got nothing to be ashamed of. Best of luck, mate and I hope everything goes ok!

2007-06-22 11:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 3 · 1 0

It's natural mate, I am but in the end it's up to you to decide what side your batting for. I am currently going out with a girl but if we were to split up I might go for a guy. It's completely your decision and no one can change your feelings.

2007-06-22 10:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Spaced Out 2 · 0 0

hate to admit it, but labels need to exist for your own satisfaction. Bisexuality is a common 'experiment' with teenagers, all you need to ask yourself is do you feel sexuallky attracted to men and women?If so then yes you are bisexual and that is who you are it will take time for you to get used to it and the idea of sex with both men and women. good luck

2007-06-24 11:42:55 · answer #8 · answered by Samuel W. 1 · 0 0

First thing, RELAX. Second thing, don't worry about it. It's ok to be bisexual, speaking from personal experience here. Just let your heart lead you where it wants.

2007-06-22 11:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by emilia 2 · 1 0

Don't do anything until you find someone nice, of either sex! You have to be twice as picky if you are bi, or you will get into twice as much trouble ...

2007-06-25 10:07:00 · answer #10 · answered by Andromeda 3 · 0 0

hi, i thought i was straight, as straight as could be, then one night things got a bit heated, with another girl. that was my one time, but i loved it.

if you think your bi, then you probably are. good luck. it's a crazy world out there. you have to think crazy to survive.

2007-06-22 13:15:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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