I have been living with my girlfriend and her daughter for about 7 months now. I am one of the fortunate people who always new I was lesbian. She got pregnant to a man she hated, married him, and lived with him for 5 years before coming out. She is 9 years older than me. I love her, but I can't accept the fact that she was so weak. I don't understand it, and I resent the fact that her child to a man she hates is partially my responsibility. He is still in the picture. It's a party every other weekend when he has her, and we are the ones who get to raise her. It is taking a toll on our relationship. I am 28 and she is 37. I just can't get used to raising someone else's kid, and yet being completely seperate from that part of my g-friend's world. Everyone says I should give it time. Kids from a previous relationship make relationships in general much more challenging. Is there anyone out there who can relate?
2006-11-28
07:17:37
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lezzieB
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