Idk what I am anymore, I am 16 years old and My head is out of control. I only liked girls for so long and I still do, I get erections from them but now Idk if I like guys. I dont get aroused or cant see myself doing stuff with them and even after this I still dont know. This really started happening out of nowhere and I am really confused. Some weeks Im like wow I cant beleive you even questioned being straight but then a few weeks later Im like idk what I like but I think I like girls but Idk. My parents said it is a phase and It should pass becasue Im growing up. When I feel that I know who I am I am happy and alive but When I dont know IM just sad and depressed. My mother has gotten me a physcologist but I havent spoken to him/her yet so I want help here. I hope this problem just doesnt get worse because I cant live like this forever. Any good advice is appreciated.
2006-11-28 08:14:01 · 11 answers · asked by max b 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Go to wikipedia and look up "hormones"
They'll be screwing with every thought you had until you're 18 or 19. Think of your mind as a roller coaster for the next year or 2. It'll go up and down, you have no control, but eventually the ride will be over.
Oddly enough it was that exact thought that got me from high school to college. Try thinking it every day when sh*t doesn't make any sense.
2006-11-28 08:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Brian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I was 16, I was so messed up in the head that I've blocked out that year, and a few others. It's a really confusing time for a lot of people to figure out who they are and what they want out of life. Just take things a day at a time.
2006-11-28 16:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I f you end up likeing guys it is not that bad. As long as you are happy. And if you end up likeing both good for you. Do not let any one talk you out of who you would want to go out with boy or girl. I know how you feel I get that same feeling. Some time I feel I like boys then other times I feel I like girls. But do what ever you feel is right for you.
2006-11-28 16:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by babygirl11 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, don't panic. At the worst if you were gay you wouldn't instantly die so maybe you should lighten up on the subject. I'm gonna guess that you hang out with guys more than girls and you haven't suddenly kissed any guy friends, so it is a good possibility your mind is exploring possibilities. You wanna know if you are gay, kiss a gay guy and rub his chest. you get hard, you probalby are. If you want to save your own sanity I suggest you do the other testing technique. Have sex with a girl. See if the bush garden is good to you, know what I'm sayin?
2006-11-28 16:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Snap J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Max, here's some good advice. You can't keep asking the same question over and over again for 3 weeks without people beginning to think you are the boy who cried wolf. I think everyone here genuinely wants to help you but it's time you told us what it is you REALLY want to know. Be well, Max.
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2006-11-28 16:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Seeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had something like this happen to me. My sister came out of the closet 8 years ago, and it made me wonder whether or not I was gay. I asked her how she knew for a fact that she was gay, and asked for advise for me. She simply said "Well, can you imagine having sex with a girl?" I said "uh, no" she then looked at me and giggled, I knew what she was getting at, and just to be sure I said "So, I'm not gay then...right?" She said "You're too straight, lol"
2006-11-28 16:20:09 · answer #6 · answered by lilfireyballofhate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i asked the pretty much the same thing on here not to long ago.
i am going through pretty much the same thing, I'm 16 and I am a girl.
i broke up with my b/f (which was very, VERY hard) just so i have time to think.
i think i'm a lesbian, but i'm not going to label myself.
dont preassure yourself to label yourself, it'll kill you. you sound like your either straight or bi, but idk.
you have to decide this for yourself.
best of luck, i know it's hard
kat
2006-11-28 16:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by stoneagequeen1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are teenage boy. Heck when I was 16 the wind got me excited. I don't think you need to worry about this as much as you do....time will tell, time will tell.
2006-11-28 16:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOUR MOMS RIGHT THATS JUST A PHASE SAVE YOUR MONEY YOU DON'T NEED A PHYSC SOMETIMES MY DAUGHTER THINKS SHES A BOY BE SHES ALL GIRL. I WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING AN I AM OLD NOW EVERYTING SAFE MY BOUY
2006-11-28 16:28:13 · answer #9 · answered by curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no baby your gay, just take it day by day and see where things might go for you....good luck
2006-11-28 16:22:17 · answer #10 · answered by ms_la_225 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋