Cultures & Groups - 3 September 2006

Very crazy. I had a nightmare that my best friend, Kristina, got the singer Aaliyah pregnant & they were both lesbian lovers in the dream. Weird because I know that women can't get other women pregnant, & Aaliyah is deceased. Well, Kristina's sister did have a baby yesterday, & she looks like Aaliyah, but this is strange. I am very upset & worried about this nightmare.

Has anyone else ever had a nightmare about a person getting someone of the same sex pregnant? Ex: a guy getting another guy pregnant? I know this can never happen in real life, but it's a very disturbing thought. I feel very awkward.

Please don't call me schizoid, crazy, or mental. Is it my anti-depressants causing me to have these kind of nightmared?

Anyways, I'm HETEROSEXUAL, & my friend is BI in real life.

2006-09-03 14:11:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I'm bisexual but I've never come out to my family, which is a highly conservative and traditional Mexican family in terms of family/parental roles and relationships. I feel like if I were to tell them I'm bi, they'd automatically equate that with being a lesbian, yet they wouldn't understand that I love both genders equally. Has anyone had a similar experience? The closest I can come to has been with "The L Word" with Carmen's family, where the mother tells her that she'd rather have a "puta" than a "lesbiana" (meaning she'd rather have a whore/slut than a lesbian daughter). That phrase really rings close to home, because I feel like my family would become disillusioned and disappointed with me.

2006-09-03 14:10:36 · 6 answers · asked by utxicana 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-03 14:08:58 · 49 answers · asked by gabsdrums 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I have a new friend that I am concerned about. I will try to explain as best I can
This person is always leaving jobs for the flimsiest reasons. Therefore this person is always looking for a job. This person was homeless on several occasions, but has an apartment now. Just recently this person is without a job again and is in danger of being evicted if a job isn't found in time to pay the next installment of rent.
This person is always telling me that they are looking for something better and when they get it, it is not what they are looking for so they quit after a season.
My question is how do you deal with a friend who tells you something and it just doesn't seem to ring true with you? Something is wrong or missing in what they say and you just can't put your finger on it!

2006-09-03 13:39:44 · 13 answers · asked by December Princess 4 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I identify with this group, but I am told that Dec.,'44 makes me too old. Any thoughts on the subject, you Boomers out there?

2006-09-03 13:38:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

I'm a foreigner who lives in Malaysia, a country that sends people to jail for twenty years for homosexual behaviour.

I met someone over the internet a short while ago and we met up at his cousin's place and did our thing and he took a photo of me 'to remember me with'. After I left, he sms-ed me saying that he had videotaped our encounter and kept my condom and would go to the police to charge me with rape unless I paid him a specified amount. During our 'encounter', he was acting very helpless and making slightly protesting sounds but I thought that was his way of showing his pleasure. Apparently, he was setting me up from the get-go.

I'm a young adult (20) who was just experimenting with his sexuality and decided to stick to women. I live in an extremely homophobic society and have no plans to come out of the closet thus my life would be ruined and I would most likely be disowned if he went to police and the media picked up on it.

Do I have a case if he goes to the police?

2006-09-03 13:27:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Sociology has established that there is such a thing as heterosexual priviledge. However, tunnel vision that would focus soley on heterosexual priviledge denies that there is oppression going on even within the hierarchies found beneath the umbrella term of queer. (Bisexual, Trans, Lesbian, Gay, + also abbreviated as LGBTQ+)

Now, excluding heterosexuals in this equation, what invisable priviledge do you see that exist within the queer caucus?

meaning, priviledge that homosexuals might enjoy that trans people or bisexual/omnisexual people might be excluded from? Or, for another example, that bisexual/omnisexual people might enjoy that trans people or homosexual people might be excluded from? Again, that trans people might enjoy that homosexual and/or bisexual/omnisexual people might be excluded from?

Also, can one queer group oppress another queer group? If so, please list examples.

2006-09-03 12:59:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Someone asked a question about it and I have no freaking clue what it is, so now I'm curious.

2006-09-03 12:42:22 · 11 answers · asked by Meghan V 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

why is it when
white people get called crackers they find it offensive
why is it when
black people get called N*igger*z they find it offensive
why is it when
chinese people get called chi**nkz they find it offensive
why is it when
japeneese people get called japz they find it offensive
why is it when mexicanz are called *****ckz they find it offensive

is it slang?

2006-09-03 12:08:34 · 24 answers · asked by Prep♥™ 5 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I told my mom I was gay about a week ago and she refuses to believe me. My brother keeps on telling her that I am not and it's really getting on my nerves. Now my mom keeps on trying to change the way I dress, the way I do my hair, and everything about me just so I will not look "gay". She will not let me get my hair cut, which is a big problem because it will look bad if the sids aren't kept short because I have a mohawk. Today, she kicked me out of the house because she said I was getting on her nerves with all of my questions. She never did give me a good reason why I should have to change the way I look. So now I am at the dorm, alone, on labor day weekend. Sucks for me. What should I do? How do I get her to believe me and let me look the way I want? I am still kind of dependent on her so I don't want to mess it up so she will not give me money. She will not let me get a job and she says she will get me a car. How do I get all of this through to her without messing everything up?

2006-09-03 11:14:17 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i'm starting at a new school and i want to know whats the best way to meet new people?

2006-09-03 11:10:00 · 7 answers · asked by basketball_dancediva 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I can't get a girlfriend for nothing. I'm nice. I'm patient. I'm reliable.

2006-09-03 10:53:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

A a musician
B an artist
C incense sticks and tarot cards
D a cat
and there isnt an e so dont bother putting your own

2006-09-03 10:50:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i literally don't know any....i dont understand how so many gay people find the right person, i cant even find A lesbian...sheesh

2006-09-03 10:46:42 · 14 answers · asked by Amandy 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I always wonder that isn't it unusual to be a gay or a lesbian!

2006-09-03 10:40:34 · 28 answers · asked by Natasha 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-03 10:25:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

having sex with boys and girls

2006-09-03 10:21:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-03 10:19:00 · 30 answers · asked by Middle Class White Male 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I keep seeing references to a Gay Movement, but exclusively in a homophobic context (ie, "that's what the Gay Movement wants you to believe"). I've never heard of this group, but I'm really curious about it. Does it have a national headquarters? How about congressional lobbyists? A website? Is anyone out there a member, and could you provide me with some free bumper stickers?

Apparently the Gay Movement has something to do with pushing the Gay Agenda, which is another thing I'm curious about.

2006-09-03 10:14:23 · 14 answers · asked by abram.kelly 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

what do you do if you found out that your mother is a man

2006-09-03 10:09:22 · 16 answers · asked by jack sparrow 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I know that they do it in colledgez but what for? Iz it dangerous? and w/e it iz for iz it worth it?

2006-09-03 10:08:02 · 10 answers · asked by kfcutie1993 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Seriously, how common is necriphelia?

2006-09-03 10:02:20 · 22 answers · asked by Celestian Vega 6 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I have and it wasn't funny. Have you?

2006-09-03 09:50:04 · 24 answers · asked by J.C. 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Am currently in a relationship with a guy...But I am turned on by reading lesbian erotica and watching lesbian porn...I even found my myself being attracted to a female I known for a while. (I never had a any lesbian expriences, though) Am I a truly a lesbian? Or should I just stay with my boyfriend,because I am just simply attracted to girl on girl action?

2006-09-03 09:41:10 · 6 answers · asked by shycat99 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

an abundance of gay people.for example my company has over 30 branches and employs at least 3 to four lesbians at each

2006-09-03 09:36:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Me and my husband are looking for a girl bwtween the ages of 21-30 who lives in new Jersey to have a threesome with. We have already filled out a thing for adult friend finder and a few other ones. Are there any other things that we can do to find more people?

2006-09-03 09:23:21 · 15 answers · asked by yvette 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I just saw a question posed that asked "what is teabagin" and i noticed that yahoo customer care had deleted the question. I think it is very important for people to be able to ask questions about bodies, sex, and sexuality. Safe, open communication about such things can lower people's risks of STD's/STI's etc.
How do you feel about yahoo sensoring people's questions?

2006-09-03 09:15:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-09-03 09:11:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I am so disgusted about the KKK. Why are they still allowed to be a group? Because of freedom of speech?

2006-09-03 08:58:53 · 8 answers · asked by ASsundevils 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

They act like they never saw a human being before,my friend does this and it is embarrassing, and it is usually while we are out eating.

2006-09-03 08:57:04 · 9 answers · asked by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 in Other - Cultures & Groups