Am currently in a relationship with a guy...But I am turned on by reading lesbian erotica and watching lesbian porn...I even found my myself being attracted to a female I known for a while. (I never had a any lesbian expriences, though) Am I a truly a lesbian? Or should I just stay with my boyfriend,because I am just simply attracted to girl on girl action?
2006-09-03 09:41:10 · 6 answers · asked by shycat99 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Stay with your boyfriend. You may want to have sex with a female but this does not make you lesbian. Depending on your relationship with you boyfriend, you guys can experiment with another woman in bed. Whatever you decide to do, be sure to think it out before acting.
2006-09-03 10:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by iluvmynotebook 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You won't know until you've had a chance to experiment or be with a woman.
Ask yourself:
What turns you on about the lesbian porn? (which is made for men, btw). Do you fantasize that you are one of the girls? If yes, which one?
That might help you determine where you fit.
There is nothing wrong with being Bi-curious. If you want to experiment - would recommend another Bi-Curious woman or a lesbian who doesn't care if you are Bi-Curious. As a femme lesbian myself - I know I wouldn't be interested in another woman who wants a man. A woman can give another woman whatever a man can and more. Don't let yourself be limited.
Hope you find what you're looking for. :-)
2006-09-03 11:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jifr 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you may want to explore your sexuality. Try going with a girl and find out if it's what you want or just a passing phase.
2006-09-03 10:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by Confused . com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your curious to me your never know unless you try it out! Good luck which ever way you turn
2006-09-03 19:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by charlie! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are bi curious. Nothing wrong with that, just be safe.
2006-09-03 09:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably just curious and there isnt anything wrong with that!
2006-09-03 12:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by maddog1968 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋