is bisexual a good a good thing?

Question

having sex with boys and girls

Answer 1

Whatever turns you on. Different strokes for different folks.

Answer 2

I think bisexuality is a valid sexual orientation. I don't believe it makes any sort of statment that a person is poly or monogomous. I believe that goes on a person to person basis regardless of one's sexual orientation.

I also don't believe identifying as bisexual doubles a person's chance at getting a date.

I don't think any consensual sexual orientations are an abomination to godde (follow below links to thread "equal marriage" if you are interested in a debate please use that space after reading comments that have already been posted)

I would also like to take this time to point out that bisexual is a term that conveys two genders and two sexes. I would like to offer an alternative term "omnisexual" which is much better at conveying all genders and nongenders, as well as all sexes, not just males and females (meaning intersexes-people's who's sex chromosomes differ from that of xx (female) and xy (male) as there are over 30 chromoomal sexes)

I believe bisexuality is often stigmatized by a particular kind of gender enforcement. In a culture that thrives on dicotomous perspective, bisexuals are harder to categorize as being at any single end of a polar based sexuality. and by gender enforcement, i'm speaking of the fact that because gender and sex(anatomy) are often conflated, homosexuality is often thought of as homogender, heterosexuality is often thought of as heterogender, and bisexuality often also connotates bigenderality.

because homophobia is a type of gender enforcement "you're not acting as a 'real" man/woman should, there is something wrong with you...etc" bisexuality could then cause even greater alarm as two dicotomized sides are threatened by the existance of a non-dicotomized (or, well, comparably less dicotomized) group.

If anyone is interested in further discussion on either sex(anatomy) and/ or (non)gender please visit the links listed below ^_^. The first is a gender education community called Gender Schmender; the second is a link to my gender research papers i've stored in my livejournal.

Answer 3

I would change your added comments to "men and women."

It's not that bisexuality is a good or bad thing; it's just that it exists. Bisexuality is part of the range of experience of the human species. In general, humans are either bisexual, homosexual or heterosexual. This range of human sexuality has always existed. People don't want to admit that because then they would have to go back in their own family histories and start marking off who was not straight on the family tree -- and that's something they cannot accept, even about their own relatives, including their direct ancestors.

Answer 4

Bisexuality doubles your chances of getting a date.

Answer 5

Works for me and has for 38 years. However there hasn't been any boys and girls involved since I was 18. After that it was all men and women.

Answer 6

In what way? It's just the way it is. Bisexuals don't choose their sexuality any more than straight or gay people do.

Answer 7

Depends on who you talk with. If you read the bible, sex outside your gender is considered an abomination and will be severely judged in the afterlife. If fact, it comes right out and says that fornicators and homosexuals will not enter the kingdom. So, if you want the secular ungodly world's opinion, go for it, fun fun fun. But if you want God's opinion, stay away from it.

Answer 8

I'm bi, and I think it's a good thing, but it's not good when people have both at the same. That's just dangerous behavior.

Answer 9

It's neither good or bad, it's simply the way things are for that individual.
Tammi Dee

Answer 10

I'm a lesbian and wouldn't date a bisexual...