Psychology - December 2007

Is been 6 months since my Ex dumped me and I'm still not over it. I'm dating another girl now and shes amazing but I still can't get rid of my deep hatred for my Ex.

She did a lot of emotional abuse during the relationship and played me like a fool. She used me, took from me and made empty promises. She left me like it was nothing. She turned me into a pathetic loser... crying and begging for her to take me back. I lost weight and cried for a week.

Now I want to hurt her... I want to make her pay and it drives me crazy that she can just abuse me and walk away. She has a great life now and she's happy and it makes me sick..

What do I do? I can't get past these Deep Deep feelings of Anger, Rage and Hate... I want her to suffer. How do I stop feeling like this?

help

2007-12-05 11:15:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

free thought, noncomformity, confidence, importance of nature and self-reliance

2007-12-05 10:57:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

The concept seems soo foreign to me. So far I haven't enjoyed any of my jobs. Right now I'm going for Chemical Engineering and it has its ups and downs....mostly sucks, but I usually don't enjoy learning unless I'm getting good grades or I'm not very stressed. I don't learn, read, or inquire just for the fun of it. I get really bored reading just about anything, especially in my field. And changing my major wouldn't work, because I am not interested in anything else. I don't understand how to change and enjoy learning and work...

2007-12-05 10:43:23 · 10 answers · asked by talljon 3

I understand that it can get annoying if someone constantly whines just to fill up space in the conversation and that can be the case sometimes but you can never be so certain that there actually isnt something hurting that person and they cannot just "get over it". It you dont want to deal with him/her than it's better to walk away from this individual rather than making such a harsh comment without being so sure that you fully understand the situation.

2007-12-05 09:48:20 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2

Last night, I just watched a documentary on body image and seeing how messed up with low esteem these people had, really made me depressed.

I've also heard of a famous writer who created documentaries about war victims and got so low from years of dealing with the atrocities she committed suicide.

Do you ever feel drained or negative emotions from such documentaries?

2007-12-05 09:39:14 · 7 answers · asked by lojix 3

why is the sky blue?

2007-12-05 09:09:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

mines a car designer

2007-12-05 09:04:09 · 42 answers · asked by Bort 3

on her withdrawal day, the day this student decides that it is her last day and is. Why would a professor still feel a little uncomfortable even after he said he would a week before.
Is it because he thinks my friends and I are close enough for me to share any insight between him and I.
He said to keep it on the "down low" or secret .
This professor said he wanted a relationship with me but only after I graduate or no longer attend the college.
He always made it clear to me that he could get into deep trouble if I exposed the conversations we would share.
We had something going on but no physical contact.
He was very shy and quiet, 27 years old.
But with me he was pretty open and relaxed, but still
a little reserved.

So why would he feel uncomfortable giving out his number... if let's say HE really did like this girl and she really liked him
(over 18) ?

he is single and not married

2007-12-05 08:54:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you see this question what is the first thing that occurs on your mind.... I want to research on different people's psychology

2007-12-05 08:45:32 · 21 answers · asked by Channu 1

For example I would prefer to be surrounded by water. I dont know what it is about water that relaxes me and causes me to feel a sense of tranquility. The sound it makes is also pleasant to my ears.
What type of environment would you prefer?

2007-12-05 08:37:07 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

what do you dream of having or wanting??

2007-12-05 08:21:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is Compassion to you?:

Empathy? :

Sympathy? :

Please give an example of each of these in/by which you have performed, or have been involved in manifesting.
Thank you!

2007-12-05 08:19:13 · 3 answers · asked by skydancerwi 6

Is it "normal" to see yourself drastically different in photographs than how you see yourself in the mirror? Not only do I see myself as a different person in photos but every single time I look in the mirror, I see myself differently. Is this a sign of poor self-image or a psychological problem that I need help with?

2007-12-05 08:16:45 · 5 answers · asked by Susie Q. 2

Im scared of the dark, ghosts and being on my own what are you scared off??

2007-12-05 08:08:01 · 27 answers · asked by Gene 2

2007-12-05 07:53:21 · 15 answers · asked by iLOVEsoccer6 2

There's a fundamental idea here that i'm missing. And I kinda wanted to some help if possible.
I watch a really good movie and i'm done with it. Maybe i can watch it again weeks/months/years later. But for the most part i'm done with it. It was good, i have a good memory of it but that's it.
My girlfriend seems to CLING to the past. Thing she liked when she was like 5 she's still into. And as far as movies, if it's a movie she likes she'll watch it 34781023 times. The same for music cd's. But they're all old and the novelty has worn out, because if she ever catches on to a movie or piece of music that came out this century, it's far too late, simply because she was too busy repeat experiencing all the other old stuff.
I don't really get it, but I don't just wanna chalk this up to incompatibility. It does cause problems though. And it's sorta annoying, i'm sure you can guess why.

2007-12-05 07:48:11 · 7 answers · asked by Gabriel B 4

Hi, I am in yr 9 and I get bullied, cus I'm fat, slow at swimmin, and runnin, ugly, and smart. Everyone calls me gay even tho I'm not. I've been contemplatin suicide 4 a while, I know it's wrong but I just donno what else to do. Any help will be greatly appreciated.

2007-12-05 07:44:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

And refuse to admit their mistakes?

2007-12-05 07:42:17 · 7 answers · asked by fanny gardener 3

2007-12-05 07:36:33 · 20 answers · asked by ? 4

Some days I come to school emotionally hurt from a variety a things, and my art teacehr takes us out to teh park. He always asks me why I am sad, but I dont know if I can tell him. He is an awesoem teacher, and he says I can tell him anything. Should I tell him? Like one day after my Best friend died, he prayed with me, and it helped.

2007-12-05 07:36:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have become somewhat obsessed with global warming. I have to say I have an anxiety problem which is probably what is feeding it. I am always worrying about something. Every little thing I throw away, I think about how long it will be sitting in a landfill. I think about lights being on, my car (I drive an 03 sunfire which gets 33mpg.) I have even started commuting with my boyfriend a lot even though it means me sitting around for 2 hours waiting for him to get out. Is anyone else thinking about these things?

2007-12-05 07:19:27 · 6 answers · asked by The Hollow Girl 4

I take it out on everyone and i hate it.
I don't knwo how to calm down except to stay to yself adn then i get told im anti-social.
I need some good productive ways to get rid of my anger and keep it under contral.
Help please?

2007-12-05 07:03:16 · 18 answers · asked by Chelsea Mae 1

What is bothering you right now?

2007-12-05 07:01:49 · 23 answers · asked by Kimi 2

am so mad at my bf because he always cancels his plans on me last minutes before letting me know...so that I could not make any other plans because it's already always late...it has happen in the past many times and I ignored it and tried to dont make a big deal out of it....Im a kind of person who sticks in her plans..values her time and very organized..I got mad because he is too inconsiderate and doesn;t respect my time that I planed to be with him already..(Im not talking bout emergeny times I definitly understand that situation ) But canceling for bullshit reasons pisses me off. I feel so angry and unhappy because this attitude is to immature...That makes me feel unimportant and so that..I was so mad at him and didnt answer his calls..untill now..so I dont know what to do...Im still so mad and also want him come and apologize for what he has done..need some help to calm myself down and some advice how to talk to him to get the best result out of it without hurting his feelings..

2007-12-05 06:51:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 48 and still am finding things to deal with that I learned very very early on in my life.

2007-12-05 06:48:52 · 4 answers · asked by panndora 4

It is very hard for me to concentrate when someone is teaching.
I am very bad at math
i get distracted alot
after people have exlplained to me instructions, I have alot of trouble understanding....
why is this???

2007-12-05 06:41:57 · 2 answers · asked by Alley 1

Let me explain, if I even can. Often I will have an experience of deja vu, but it is not really my current situation that is familiar, but I will "see" a situation in my mind and when I see that situation, I will feel like I have seen that situation before. I know this sounds kinda strange, but it happens. Then, later, I will experience this situation and the feeling of Deja Vu will be very strange, like seeing your reflection in opposing mirrors, it just keeps going forever. Does anyone know what I am talking about?

2007-12-05 06:36:36 · 4 answers · asked by sherpa_jones 3

2007-12-05 06:34:15 · 12 answers · asked by I dont know 4

2007-12-05 06:25:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

First of, what stopped you? Secondly, why did you want to? Thirdly, do you believe in life after death?

2007-12-05 06:19:51 · 6 answers · asked by Sherise H 2